DR BEN DAVIS

Clinical Sexologist

Sex & Relationship Therapist

GP Specialising in Sexual Medicine
& Men’s Health

Welcome!

I’m Dr Ben, a Clinical Sexologist and Sex & Relationship Therapist as well as a GP specialising in Sexual Medicine. I’m here to help you navigate a path to better sexual wellbeing, intimacy and relationships.

If you’re struggling with low libido, erection problems or facing relationship difficulties, I’m here to help, whatever the underlying cause.

I combine medical assessment and treatment where needed with sex and relationship therapy, ensuring a comprehensive and truly holistic approach to any sex and relationship difficulties you might be facing.

Issues I help with:

  • Sexual Difficulties & Sexual Pleasure:

    • Low sexual desire, sex drive & libido

    • Erectile Dysfunction & Unreliable Erections

    • Difficulty with orgasm

    • Early or premature ejaculation

    • Painful sex

    • Worries about problematic sex or porn use

  • Symptoms of Low Testosterone

    • Loss of sexual desire and libido

    • Difficulties getting and maintaining erections

  • Intimate Partner & Couples Therapy

    • Differences in sexual desire

    • Loss of sexual intimacy

    • Communication difficulties

    • Navigating open relationships & non-monogamy

How I Help You: My Four Key Values for Exceptional Care

Four key principles are at the heart of what I do:

  1. Truly Holistic, Personalised Care, Addressing Root Causes

    As a Doctor and Sex and Relationship Therapist I offer the full range of care rather than focusing on just one approach. I balance the need for medical investigation and treatment with other less medical approaches. You are an individual and understanding the specific nature of what is going on for you is crucial rather than trying to fit you into a medical box.

  2. Independent, Ethical and Evidence Based Help

    I’m completely independent and here to find the best way forward for you under my care. I’m not here to sell you testosterone or medication if you don’t need it. My practice is firmly rooted in a deep understanding of the evidence and what is helpful, not what makes money.

  3. A Safe, Open and Judgement Free Space

    When you come and see me, we create a safe space for you to talk about what’s been going on. There’s no judgement and you can be honest, knowing there’s very little I haven’t heard before, and I’m here to support you whatever you’re facing.

  4. Continuity of Care with Ongoing Support

    Seeing a skilled doctor who knows you and who you trust matters. I offer continuity and follow up with me directly.

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